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Deliver Common Services in an Uncommon Manner
Wednesday, October 24th, 2012

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Securing Valuable Introductions
Wednesday, June 6th, 2012

Norm Trainor talks about the difference between introductions and referrals in The Entrepreneurial Journey. Referrals, which can be a mere name and phone number, do not carry the same level of confidence as a client who will personally introduce you to someone they think could benefit from your services. The latter situation also displays the degree of trust that your client has in you and your business, and facilitates a transferral of that trust and confidence to a prospect.
There are five steps to securing introductions, the first of which is delivering high-quality customer service that will confirm your client’s confidence in you. Set up the request for an introduction by asking your client about his or her level of satisfaction and what they like about your services — if the response is positive, you reaffirm the relationship with your client and earn permission to advance to the next step of the introduction request process.
Next, explain to the person exactly what kind of client you are looking to attract, and ask them questions about possible prospects they may know to help them think of names. Are there any successful people they are friends with, or colleagues who fit your ideal client description? As the client lists names, be specific and ask them to introduce you in person, not merely pass on a referral.
Finally, follow up with the client who introduced you. Keep them updated on your progress with a prospect and continue asking for assistance as you work to establish a new client relationship. Showing your appreciation now will increase their willingness to make more introductions in the future.
I recently came across an older Inc. magazine piece by Marla Tabaka, who underscored the importance of casting a wide net.
“Remember that a long courtship is normal in the world of sales and, no matter how stunning your prospect believes you are, they may decline your invitation to take the plunge,” she wrote. Tabaka also echoed a philosophy that we incorporate into every financial advisor training program at The Covenant Group — the importance of having a long line of prospects at various stages of the courtship phase in your marketing and sales pipeline.
Continue to drip on your existing clients through marketing materials and email in order to drive home the value that you offer to them. This will ensure that they have enough confidence in you to introduce you to their friends, family and colleagues.
Matthew Asser has spent the last few decades gaining expertise in how financial services firms can optimize their operations, marketing, new products, business development and client relationship management practices. He’s well-versed in the challenges that an entrepreneur may struggle with, and as a Senior Coach and Facilitator, helps clients achieve business change through The Covenant Group’s extensive financial advisor training programs.
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5 Questions to Answer in Developing your Strategy
Tuesday, May 22nd, 2012
by Norm Trainor, The Covenant Group
1. What is your Business Model?
Great companies describe the essence of what makes them unique in a simple and compelling manner. For Walmart, it is lowest price. Walmart revolutionized retailing by focusing upon operational excellence. The firm does a better job of supply chain management than any company in its space. As a consequence, they are able to ruthlessly drive down costs and offer lower prices. Four Seasons differentiates itself through the quality of service. Isadore Sharp explained how Four Seasons can charge twice the room rate of Hilton or Westin by saying: “It is because we do common things uncommonly well.”
The level of response of great leaders in defining the Business Model is transformational. The intent is not to compete with the existing players, but to make them irrelevant.
Your performance measures in developing your Business Model are business viability, shareholder wealth and return on capital. The timeframe is 10 years or more.
Traditionally, financial advisory firms measure success based upon commission earned and assets under management {AUM}. The real measure is profitability or earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation and amortization {EBITDA}.
Keep in mind that Strategy is the alignment of the outputs or objectives you want to achieve, the systems and capabilities you have to realize your objectives and the opportunities and challenges the environment provides. Your challenge as a leader is to figure out the strategy required to maximize shareholder value and return on your capital and time invested.
2. What are your products, services, markets and ideas?
One of the ways in which you can positively impact EBITDA is through product and service mix. As we have discussed, there is significant potential for increased profitability of the client relationship through the sale of insurance products, the offering of fee based planning in the areas of financial, estate, tax and business succession planning and a focus on the whole family wealth continuum.
This requires a balancing of integration and return on capital. Rather than measure success based upon commissions or asset management fees, the key is to measure the overall profitability of each client relationship lifetime. The opportunity and challenge is to build clients for life.
3. What are your systems and processes?
Great businesses are built upon replicable processes. A process is a pattern or methodology that is repeatable, distinguishable and transferable.
A typical Starbucks location generates ten times more revenue than an owner operated cafe across the street. The difference in revenue is a bi-product of the effectiveness and efficiency of the systems and processes Starbucks instills in each of its operations. It is not about the people who work in Starbucks versus the employees of the owner operated business; it is about the systems and processes.
One of your challenges is to implement systems and processes that are repeatable, distinguishable and transferable. Financial services training can help you develop, expand and enhance the system capabilities of your firm.
4. How do you assure quality and continuous improvement?
Great leaders instill in those around them the belief that everyone has a stake in the business getting better. Apple is a classic example of the relentless focus upon improving every aspect of the product and the user experience. Effectiveness is doing the right things. Efficiency is doing things right. Your systems and processes ensure that people are doing the right things. Supervision and management ensures that people do things right.
5. What is Service Excellence?
The paradox of Service Excellence is that the answer begins with your answers to each of the first four questions. Satisfaction is the ratio of experience to expectation. Doing common things uncommonly well requires a commitment to excellence on the part of every employee. It also involves the recognition that what is value added today will be expected tomorrow.
Continuous improvement is a fundamental underpinning of excellence. The principle of creative destruction does apply. As a leader, you are constantly confronting the sense of entitlement that comes with success. Entitlement is an illusion. Yet, it is a natural bi-product of success.
We believe that we have earned the right to client loyalty and to high fees. People are grateful, but only for a short time. Then, they want to know what we are going to do for them going forward.
Great leaders continuously challenge people to be better at what they do, to continuously learn and grow. As a result, they bring out the best in people who are committed to grow and make it uncomfortable for people who do not share the values of excellence.
Great leaders also elevate the level of the conversation. They educate those around them with regard to the firm’s business model, products, services, markets and ideas, the systems and processes that differentiate the way in which they do business and the relentless focus upon quality and continuous improvement. These are the elements that lead to Service Excellence. Leadership training facilitates a culture of ongoing feedback that informs everyone with regard to the standards of service excellence and their contribution.
Summary:
In answering the above questions, start by describing your Business Model i.e. how you will assure the viability of your business, the return on your time and capital invested and the creation of shareholder wealth. This will naturally lead to an exploration of the products and services you offer, the markets you serve and the ideas that differentiate your business. It will require you to think about the systems and processes required to serve your clients and attract new clients. Ultimately, you will evolve a picture of Service Excellence and what is required to be effective and efficient in delivering this level of service to your clients. The Covenant Group is here to help in establishing effective systems and processes.
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Using Customer Service as a Marketing Tool
Wednesday, April 18th, 2012
by Anthony Lam, Covenant Group
Never underestimate the power of a client recommendation. When the people with whom you’ve built business agreements trust you enough to not only continue the relationship, but suggest that their friends and associates do the same, entirely new markets and groups of prospects can become accessible.
How do you get to the point in the relationship that your clients feel comfortable telling their friends and associates about your services? Do you have a system in place that guarantees top-notch customer service while priming your clients to make recommendations or introductions later on? Have you made the customer experience a priority not only as a tactic for keeping the clients you have, but as a business-building strategy?
Delivering high-quality client experiences can serve as a marketing tool, making prospects not only aware of your existence, but also why they should consider a relationship with you. One focus in financial service training is learning how to interact with clients in a way that makes them feel valued and special, every time. It’s not enough to just be a great salesperson. Even before the deal is closed, you need to be nurturing and deepening the client relationship by investing time and/or money in providing the best customer experience possible.
Forrester Research released a study earlier this year that investigated the monetary benefits of devoting additional resources to improving how the customer feels when interacting with a company. The good news is: There’s a payoff in paying more attention to your clients’ experiences.
“The Business Impact of Customer Experience, 2012″ found that when companies offer a better customer experience, their clients tend to be more loyal, a development that can result in longer-lasting relationships, greater recommendations and increased revenues, analyst Megan Burns writes for the research firm’s blog. For hotels and wireless service providers that made the issue a priority, revenues benefited from a $1.3 billion boost.
The boon to profits is not short-lived. “When your customers like the experience you deliver, they’re more likely to consider you for another purchase and recommend you to others,” Burns writes. “They’re also less likely to switch their business away to a competitor. These improved loyalty scores translate into more actual repeat purchases, more prospects influenced to buy through positive word of mouth, and less revenue lost to churn.”
Anthony Lam has spent more than 20 years honing his customer relationship management skills. He has demonstrated his commitment to high-quality customer service in the retail, banking and airline industries. Anthony is the Manager of Program Delivery and Client Relationships at The Covenant Group and coaches financial advisors on client services through The Covenant Group’s financial services training.
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How a Two-Minute Phone Call Cost a Client
Wednesday, April 11th, 2012
Today’s article arises from a call from an advisor looking to salvage a client relationship.
In August I wrote that when it comes to hearing from clients, no news is definitely NOT good news. Just because you haven’t heard from clients doesn’t mean they’re not stewing about the impact of market events on their portfolio and wondering why they haven’t heard from you.
Recently, an advisor named Mike’s failure to take two minutes out of his day for a critical task made this point painfully clear. He’d read my August article and decided that right after Labour Day he’d begin to systematically touch base with clients, asking if they’d like to meet. Before he could do that, events intervened and he paid a big price for waiting to make those calls.
The call every advisor dreads
Just before the Labour Day weekend, Mike got a call from a substantial and long-standing client.
“I’m calling to let you know that Susan and I have decided to move our account” the call began. Not a great start, but it got worse.
“I’m disappointed to hear that” was Mike’s response ” but I can understand how you’d be unhappy given what’s happened to markets over the last while.”
His client’s answer surprised him:
“Obviously markets have been tough but that’s not really why we’re moving. In early August, Susan and I were talking about the fact that we hadn’t heard from you for a while and were wondering what was going on.
I was going to send you a note but got busy. Then I got a call at work from someone who introduced himself as a financial planner at my RBC bank branch. He said that he was calling in the event that that I hadn’t heard from my advisor recently and would like to sit down and talk about what’s happening in our portfolio.
We ended up meeting for a coffee and then Susan and I sat down with him. Ultimately, we just decided that we’re not a big enough client to get the kind of attention we’re looking for and we’d be better off working with someone who’d be able to give us more priority.”
Mike apologized for not being in touch and said that in fact this client was on his list to call the following week. He asked for another chance, promising to stick to a schedule of regular meetings. His soon-to-be former client thanked him but said that he had his wife had talked this over and really had made up their minds.
The price of procrastination
Chances are that the exact same amount of time that Mike spent trying to salvage the relationship, without success would have prevented this problem in the first place. A two minute call at the beginning of August to check in is all that it would have taken.
I’ve had advisors tell me that given how busy they are fighting fires and responding to client calls, they don’t have time to make proactive calls. This misses two important points.
First, the impact of a call that you make is dramatically greater than one that your client initiates. You’ll spend the exact same amount of time on the phone or in a meeting, but if the client took the first step, they’ll often conclude that you would never have called on your own. In effect, you can’t be relied on to stay on top of things without prompting; not a good feeling for clients.
Second and related to this, the time making proactive calls isn’t an extra expenditure of time. Rather, it’s a reallocation of the time you’d be spending responding to clients except that you’re getting a much higher payoff from that time.
I’ve written in the past about the impact of taking 30 minutes a day to make proactive calls to clients you haven’t spoken to recently. Advisors who’ve done this told me they were sceptical initially, but once they tried it realized that they were getting a better impact from this 30 minutes than to any other half hour their entire day.
Persuading clients to stay
A final note on my advice to Mike on salvaging this client
When a client tells you they’re leaving, begging them to stay typically won’t change their mind. I made two suggestions to Mike.
First, part with class. Tell departing clients that while you’re disappointed, you obviously respect their decision and offer to do whatever you can to make the transition a smooth one. That can include expediting paperwork and following up with head office to ensure that things are being processed. The last thing you want is for departing clients to feel that you’re dragging your heels.
Second, provided of course that you’d like to work with them in future, tell clients who are leaving that you’d like to stay in touch. I suggested that Mike keep the departing client on his mailing list, and after six months days, check in to see how things are going. If Mike is lucky, the client may say that things with his advisor have not ended up being as rosy as promised and be open to coming back.
Of course, all of this could have been avoided with a short phone call. This is one of those “pay me now or pay me later” propositions. You may decide that you don’t have the time to make those two minute proactive phone calls. Just recognize that by failing to make them, you’re setting yourself up for aggravation down the road dealing with problems that would otherwise have been prevented.

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The Advisor’s Success Measure – A Profitable Client Relationship
Wednesday, August 10th, 2011
I continue to be surprised when financial advisors measure their success based upon the transaction value of a sale or client assets under management (AUM). Today, the measure of an advisor’s success is the profitability of the client relationship.
Let me give you an example. Neil had been an advisor for 21 years, but had reached his peak revenue five years ago. He was tired of working harder and harder for the same return. That was his motivation to get involved in our Practice Development Program.
Most advisors don’t understand the relationship between profit and their clientele and how best to harness the value of each client relationship to generate a profit. I asked Neil how many clients he had.
“Roughly 300 family units,” he answered. A typical advisor works at a deep level with 40 or 50 clients.
“Neil,” I said, “I don’t think you can tell me with conviction that you have relationships of any depth with clients outside your top tier. Do you know each client’s financial and life goals, the issues and problems they face, their deepest needs, wants and values? Do you know if you are their primary advisor? Who their other advisors are? What their total net worth is? How many products or services they have with you compared to their other advisors? How much wallet-share you have?”
Neil admitted he couldn’t answer many of these questions for the bulk of his clientele. I then went on to explain to Neil that If a typical advisor were to graph his or her profit against their clientele, they would most likely find that 150% or more of their profit comes from their top 40 clients. The rest of their clients take them back to 100%. So, the profit they make on their key relationships is lost on the mass of their other lower-level relationships.
But this doesn’t need to be the case. With the right strategies in place, an advisor can extend the profit potential well beyond the 40-client mark. Furthermore, the remainder of their clientele can add to their profit rather than detract from it, albeit at a decreased rate.
Neil asked if I was suggesting he segment his client base.
“Yes,” I said, “but I want you to have a clear understanding of the effect of segmentation on profit, and how exactly to segment your client base. I don’t believe a lot of advisors go about it the right way. You need to have sound criteria for segmenting your clientele and the discipline to apply the appropriate service levels for each segment. Too many advisors aren’t rigorous enough. They tend to provide either too much or too little service to different segments and this drags down their profit.”
Neil asked what criteria he should use to segment his client base.
“We use three criteria: 1. Value; 2. Propensity to buy; and 3. Willingness to introduce, recommend and refer you to people who fit your Ideal Client Profile. You need to examine the potential of each client based upon these three factors. Value is based on things such as the client’s net worth, the assets you manage and the premiums they pay. Propensity to buy considers the number of products and services they could buy from you in the future. The third measure is their ability and willingness to lead you to other high-value prospects.
“Some clients might have high value, but a low propensity to buy. You can graph the value potential of your clients against their propensity to buy. Ideally, you want to find as many clients with high value who also have a high propensity to buy. Those, of course, are going to be A clients. But if a client is not likely to do additional business with you, you’re probably better off categorizing them as B or C clients.
Your next challenge is to come up with a strategy for realizing the potential profit each client represents. For financial advisors there are essentially four key strategies to focus on: 1) grow your client’s assets under management; 2) cross-sell, 3) consolidate; and 4) make yourself referable. If you apply these strategies to your high-value clients who have a high propensity to buy, and a willingness to help, you will increase the profitability of your business.”
“But I won’t have time to service all of my clients,” Neil said.
“For each segment of your clientele, you require a Service Level Agreement (SLA). It is important that the service you provide fits your profit formula. That’s what becoming profitable in each client segment is about. The implementation of your SLAs involves various options. You can delegate service functions to staff, share the servicing with another advisor or marketing service, or hire a junior advisor.”
Neil agreed. He had reservations about taking time away from his business to segment his clientele and develop a marketing, sales and service strategy, but he forced himself. He booked three days out of the office and worked on his business plan. He was surprised at the results.
His methods for marketing, selling and servicing his clientele were more messed up than he thought. There were lots of high-value clients with a propensity to buy whom he treated like C or D clients and too many C and D clients with whom he spent way too much time and energy for them to be profitable. It was no wonder he hadn’t been able to grow his business over the past few years.
Within a few months, Neil implemented his SLAs for each client segment. He focused more of his time on those clients who were of high value, have a propensity to buy and were willing to refer. In addition, he brought in a junior associate to whom he delegated the C & D clients. Before long, he was already seeing great results. His revenue increased over 50% in the next year and his profit by over 70%.
Norm Trainor is the founder of The Covenant Group, a company specializing in practice development for advisors. For further information, visit his Web site at www.covenantgroup.com.
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You Missed a Great Conference!
Wednesday, May 25th, 2011
The CIFPs 8th National Conference Review
By Marc Lamontagne, CFP, R.F.P, FMA
This is my second consecutive year attending this conference and once again the agenda was PACKED. Each day began about 7:30 am and typically went to 6:00 pm, with dinner starting pronto at 6:30. You clearly earn your CE credits and receive your money’s worth at this conference.
The agenda was a smorgasbord; enough to quench the thirst for novelty of 500 to 600 attendees. The highlight was undoubtedly Hermann F. Leiningen with RBC Global Asset Management. Leiningen was very funny, and he managed to walk the audience through several complex economic scenarios and sustain their interest!
Take away: Expect U.S. interest rates to stay low for at least the next nine months or until there is a jobs recovery, stocks are still trading at the lower end of the band due to continued global economic uncertainty, and the demand for oil from China and India has barely scratched the surface.
Like any conference there were a few mutual fund company “talking heads,” although the more interesting material came from industry participants such as Cary List, President and CEO of the Financial Planners Standards Council. List presented some of the findings of their recent consumer survey on the benefits of financial planning. This is news that all CFP professionals will want to share with their clients and prospects. Shawn Brayman, President of PlanPlus, offered us an overview of the top academic and industry research in the field of financial planning. However, he had so many fascinating papers to discuss, it was unfortunate he had only an hour to cover his material. And yours truly gave a short presentation on the recent 2010 Advisor Survey Report, concluding that the delivery of financial advice is not that different between fee and commission models.
Susan Wolburg Jenah, President & CEO of IIROC, provided an update on the Client Relationship Model (CRM) proposals that will impose greater disclosure on the industry in order to increase investor protection. However, the CRM has dragged on for so long and morphed so many times, it is hard to believe it will ever materialize. Asked by an attendee how the developments on compensation in the U.K. and Australia might affect us here, Wolburg Jenah said that IIROC was keeping a close eye on developments that could potentially influence compensation models in Canada, although it is preferable that industry participants “voluntarily” assess how to better align the interests of clients and advisors.
The final day ended at noon, but the morning still had several excellent speakers such as Dr. Dale Orr, Jamie Golombek, and Kevin O’Brien, who filled the morning with great nuggets of wisdom.
Take away: Dr. Orr from Economic Insight provided his short-term predictions for Canada’s economy: negligible inflation, the dollar will trade close to par or maybe even higher if the price of oil increases, short-term rates will be higher in Canada than the U.S. (again putting upward pressure on our dollar), expect the Bank of Canada policy rate to increase by 25 basis-points at every fixed announcement date for the next three years until it reaches the target of 4% to 4.5%, and finally, don’t expect to see a balanced federal budget until 2014–2015.
Jamie Golombek from CIBC Private Wealth Management, who always stages a grand show, regaled the audience with stories of creative brokers who supposedly found loopholes in the TFSA contribution rules. He also offered several useful tax strategies, updates, and suggestions on advising your clients based on recent tax court decisions.
Take away: Advisors should be recommending to almost every client that they top up their TFSA contribution room prior to making RRSP contributions.
And finally, certified financial planner Kevin O’Brien from Kevin O’Brien & Associates told the audience his sometimes funny, sometimes heartfelt story of managing his parent’s messy estate before he became an advisor. It affected his current approach to estate planning so much that he published his story for other advisors to read in Where There’s a Will….There’s a Way.
Overall, it was an excellent conference, and I would highly recommend attending CIFP 2011 to be held in Ottawa from June 5 to 8. Media articles from some of the presentations are available on the CIFP website.
Fall Conference Alert!
There are two first-rate conferences coming up in the fall that I will attend and recommend as well worth the investment.
The first is the IAFP Annual Symposium in Banff from September 23 to 25, 2010. This one is particularly enjoyable; it is more symposium than conference because it is anchored by a single financial planning case study. All speakers are required to reference this case study in their presentations and are encouraged to publish papers from their specialty perspective. This certainly eliminates the disorientation one can sometimes feel listening to multiple talking heads on several diverse subjects at other conferences. This year the case study is about a retiring business owner who also happens to be a financial planner (is this a coincidence?). The symposium culminates with a half-day discussion on the case study by the 125+ attendees.
The second is the Knowledge Bureau’s (KB) Distinguished Advisor Conference in Orlando from November 14 to 17, 2010. Knowledge Bureau faculty speakers such as Richard Croft and Doug Nelson are top notch and KB President Evelyn Jacks obviously used her time wisely recruiting the likes of Don Stewart, CEO Sun Life Financial, while she was a fellow member of the Federal Task Force on Financial Literacy. The other compelling reason to attend is this: each day ends at the utterly civilized time of 1:30 pm, giving attendees ample time to enjoy the sun and nearby amenities with colleagues and family.
Marc Lamontagne, CFP, R.F.P., FMA is a fee-based financial planner with Ryan Lamontagne Inc., fee-model practice management trainer, and author of To Fee or Not to Fee II — How to design a fee financial advisory practice. www.tofeeornottofee.com

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How Referrals Happen
Wednesday, May 18th, 2011
How Referrals Happen
When friends ask clients, not when the advisor asks
by Stephen Wershing, The Client Driven Practice
It is not true what you been told – you don’t get more referrals because you ask for more. In my work, I know that people refer not because they are asked to, but because they want to. John Jantsch, in his book The Referral Engine, goes a little further – people refer because they need to. We refer, he says, as a form of survival, to connect with other people, to build social currency.
A study by Julie Littlechild of Advisor Impact now reveals statistics to support this understanding. Littlechild found that 57% of clients who referred did so because a friend described a financial challenge, and 48% did so because a friend asked for one. How many provided their most recent referral because their advisor asked for one? 2%. The problem with asking Asking for referrals is about the worst way to try getting them. Too frequently, it sets up a scenario that actually compromises the client relationship. What’s worse, unlike cold calling, which may be the crudest and least imaginative way to try to get new clients, it doesn’t work.
At least cold calling, done consistently and frequently enough, will bring in clients, and sometimes good ones. Referrals provided in response to your request for them will not generally give you the best ones. There is simply no clear straight-line between asking clients for referrals the way we have been traditionally trained to do it and the best referrals you actually receive.
Here are some of the problems created by constantly asking your clients for referrals:
• It places demands on clients. Your relationships with clients are not like your relationships with friends. In a friendship, you do each other favors because you like each other and are important to each other. While most advisors count friends among their clients, the fundamental relationship is for you to provide service to clients and for them to compensate you for it. (We will get to the whole compensation thing in just a minute.) Asking your clients to serve you gets the relationship backwards.
• It violates client expectations. When a client retains an advisor, they are looking to receive services, and in return they are willing to pay. Everyone understands that relationship. When you begin asking for more than simply pay, you run a significant risk of surprising your client with an expectation from the relationship they had not counted on. Surprises like that are generally not positive experiences for the client.
• It converts referrals into transactions. Many training programs recommend framing the referral request as an exchange. “If we do this, we would like you to do that.” That establishes a weak basis for a referral. Ideally, clients refer to us because they are thrilled with the experience and want to share that with people they care about. Reducing it to an economic transaction cheapens it. Giving us a referral can be a very positive experience for our clients. But, like any other activity we enjoy doing, doing it as a business transaction takes most of the fun out of it.
• It distorts the message you want to communicate. Many programs recommend introducing the idea of referrals with phrases like “it is part of how I get paid” or “if you help me find new clients, I can spend less time marketing and more time providing service to you.” Most of these approaches can confuse the client. I’m not paying you enough? So you’re spending all your time marketing and not taking care of me? There is tremendous opportunity to confuse the client about how you run your business.
• The biggest problem of all – it puts the focus on you. In your relationship, the focus should be on the client. In a well-designed referral system, the focus remains on the client. The client provides referrals because they derive benefits from introducing their friends and acquaintances, not because it is an obligation. Once the activity changes to providing you benefits, you have just short-circuited much of the motivation for providing them to you. Too many of the ways we have been taught to attract referrals send the wrong messages. Too many create stress for the client. Too many create the scenario that makes the client uncomfortable with referring people to us. Most referral programs reflect a hunter mentality. We must go out and stalk and capture the referral. How do you suppose the prey feels in this relationship?
The new research indicates that you can attract referrals, and you don’t have to demand them. You have probably seen examples of this in your own experience. Do you know anyone who gets referrals and never asks? Some advisory practices actually have a policy of not asking. Under the hunter mentality, this would be impossible. I prefer to think of referrals more like a farmer rather than a hunter. Under the farmer
model, you prepare the soil, plant the seeds, and nurture the field. A crop will grow. I keep hearing in referral training programs how important it is not to release the process to clients. If you want dependable, consistent referrals, you need to be in control. The farmer does not approach it this way. Could you imagine a farmer being obsessed with the progress of every seed? He knows that if he plants enough seats in fertile soil and carefully tends to the field he will get a good crop. Not every seed will germinate. Not every plant will thrive. But he will get ample yield.
Littlechild’s study separates clients into different categories based on how strong a client’s feelings are toward their advisor. The top category is “engaged.” Clients become engaged when they have a wide and deep relationship with their advisor, have their expectations for the relationship met or exceeded, and feel they have a meaningful influence on how the advisor provides service. How to engage clients is an important
question because virtually all referrals received by an advisor come from this group. Therefore, the most productive route to referrals is to make sure your clients are engaged and that you have created in the client the environment in which a referral has a high probability of occurring. Then, when they are asked for a referral, there is the highest likelihood that it will materialize.
Am I actually advocating never asking for referrals? Not really, although many businesses get consistent referrals without directly asking. If you ask, do it the right way. Dan Richards and John Jantsch have both written about creating referral systems focused on the asking for referrals in a way that benefits the clients. The right way means starting by asking the clients for their opinions instead of referrals. Ask how you can get better. Ask what they want most from you and your interactions with them, and update your processes to consistently deliver it. Ask what your clients believe is your greatest value to them, and what particular skills or value they recognize you for.
Put the spotlight on the clients, get them involved in improving your practice. Only then can you credibly ask if they know other people who need what you provide. And at that point, your clients will refer their friends and acquaintances because it is a benefit to them, not a service to you. The best, most powerful way of putting the spotlight on clients and getting them involved in your practice is the client advisory board. Before we get to the details of utilizing advisory boards, however, let’s describe the environment in which it will operate.
Next Week: Setting the Stage for Referrals
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How Often Should You Bring Up Referrals?
Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011
In a recent roundtable lunch that I hosted with advisors, the question came up as to the right frequency with which to raise referrals with clients.
Some advisors were hesitant on introducing the topic of referrals at all. On the other hand, one advisor talked about a direct connection between how frequently he talked to clients about referrals and the chances that referrals would follow as a result.
While true to a point, there are some obvious cases of going too far.
For example, suppose you raise the subject of referrals on the phone to a client in the morning.
If you believe that advisors should “Always ask for referrals” then if you happen to speak to that same client the next day, you should say “Since we spoke last, have you run into anyone I should be talking to?”
Few advisors would take the idea of always asking for referrals to this extreme – but the question still persists about the right frequency with which to raise referrals.
Quality over quantity
While the “more the merrier” approach does apply to some aspects of the advisor client relationship – that’s not true of referrals. Yes, you want to let clients know you’re open for business, but bringing this up too often can backfire.
The reason is quite simple. Remember, clients provide referrals to help their friends, not their advisors. And if referral conversations become a recurring part of every conversation, you risk being seen as a pest rather than someone committed to helping clients achieve their goals and as operating from your agenda, not clients’.
As a result, the focus of referral conversations needs to be quality, not quantity. For example, throw away reminders that you’re open for business generally seem to have marginal benefit. As a general rule, a three minute conversation about the specific attributes of the clients that you work with best and can help the most that actually engages clients (and is in fact a conversation) is far more effective than any number of casual reminders that “referrals are welcomed.”
Establishing a rule of thumb
Even with a focus on quality first, you still need some guidelines on how often to raise this subject in talking to clients.
Part of the difficulty here is that there is no universal answer to this question – it will vary with each individual advisor and client.
There are three scenarios in which it’s easier to bring up referrals:
- If clients have provided referrals in the past. While respecting client confidentiality, if the person they referred is still a prospect, there’s an opportunity to update clients on the progress of the conversation. And if the person they signed up has become a client, you can briefly mention that things are going well and thank them again.
- If they joined you as a referral themselves.
One advisor will introduce this topic by saying: “You’ll recall that the only reason we’re working together is that you were referred by NAME OF CLIENT”
- If a client is coming to an event you’re running, you have an opportunity to call him or her a couple of weeks beforehand and say:
“Dan, I look forward to seeing you at the tax planning lunch that my branch is hosting on February 4, with our panel of three accountants. The reason I’m calling is that while the bulk of my guests will be clients like you, I do have one spot available at my table. I wonder whether your partner Joanne might be interested in joining you and coming along.”
So the frequency will vary – but you still need a rule of thumb.
Here’s one way to think about the frequency with which to bring up referrals in client meetings.
Unless clients raise the topic, you should bring up referrals no more than once every three meetings or every two years, whichever comes first. That means that if you meet with clients annually, you would raise referrals on every second meeting … or every two years. If you meet with clients twice a year, that means you’re bringing up referrals every eighteen months.
This assumes, of course, that you haven’t received a referral in the meantime – if you do get a referral, this creates an opportunity to keep this top of mind by updating clients on the progress of your conversation with their friends.
Guidelines for referral conversations
There are at least three implications to adopting a more selective approach to raising referrals with clients:
- First, a “less is more” approach only works if the conversations that you do have are higher quality and engage clients.
- As a result, you need to plan the conversation. One approach I’ve written about in the past is incorporating a referral conversation into the agenda for client meetings.
So when you’re setting the meeting up, after first finding out what clients want to talk about, you could then go on to say:
“One other topic I’d like to briefly discuss when we meet. You may recall that a couple of years ago we talked about the qualities of clients that I found I could help the most. I’ve recently updated that list – when we meet, I wonder if we could take three minutes to talk about this, should you be talking to someone looking to make a change in advisors.”
- Finally, you need to rigourously record every time you talk to clients about referrals. Chances are your clients will remember when you talked about referrals – but unless you record this in the client file, you won’t.
All of this is much more effort than every time you meet with a client saying “Who do you know who I should be talking to?”
But it’s results that are the standard of success, not the ease of implementation.
And if results are your priority, then consider whether a “quality over quantity” approach to referral conversations might be right for you.

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